How to please ANY man (Part two)

This long awaited sequel instructions How to Please ANY Man

In this part I will talk about other elements of the adjustment,

to help inspire confidence!

Again, the basic techniques of NLP!

This is the first Part:

http://akak. ru/recipes/11173-kak-dobitsya-raspolozheniya-lyubogo-cheloveka

Instruction

Difficulty level: Difficult

step 1

Another very important element of the adjustment is the VOICE !

So you have to adjust to adjust.

When you are unable to see the person and you talk to him, for example, by telephone, this element is particularly important, so as to adjust the position of the interlocutor does not make sense.

So, what are the characteristics needed to adjust?

2 step

Loudness.

You begin to hear a man say.

Loud or Quiet?

And depending on this, you begin to speak the same way.

If a person says a calm, quiet voice say as well.

But if a person shouts, no need to start yelling, you just need to increase the volume significantly, but not much !

The important thing here is congruence .

If anyone knows what it is, then simply explain:

Congruence is a normal match.

For example: if you will always speak softly and suddenly starts to talk very loudly, it would not be congruent=)

3 step

The speed of speech.

Here we need to catch the speed of speech, quick man says or slowly?

The person who loves to talk fast (because he was going too fast flashing images in my head) not like it, if you will speak slowly.

Start to talk in his normal speed, and slowly accelerate or samesies depending on the situation.

step 4

The pitch of the voice.

Everything is simple.

Listen to the pitch of the voice and begin to adapt.

If a man speaks in a high voice, start, too, so voice chat.

If said in a low voice, lower yours.

Again I emphasize:

You don't have to leave your comfort zone .

If a girl tells a very high voice, literally Peeps, just raise.

5 step

Do not try to adjust to the accent, dialect and diction, because the interlocutor is likely to think that you mimic!

6 step

In General, I told you all I know about tuning the voice, I hope you will successfully apply.

And remember, the main thing is PRACTICE!

Oh and for dessert, will talk about the offset:

7 step

What is the offset?

The offset is the opposite of Adjustment.

Why do we need it?

There are times when you start to talk nasty to you people.

And when you rebuilt, then the communication starts to be negative, and slowly stops.

For example:

Calls you on the phone some man who starts to talk about their problems:

He (slowly): - Ala hi there How are you doing?

You (cheerful voice): " Hello! Hi, Vasek! I'm fine and wonderful.

And then the other person begins to feel a hard set and said, listen, I'll call you back.

8 step

A little bonus:

Smile when you talk on the phone, the other person can hear it=)

You can also write a statement about rapport and adjustment other items (deeper)